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Home » My Precious Mom and ALS Lou Gehrig’s disease

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My Precious Mom and ALS Lou Gehrig’s disease

For those of you that have been following me recently know that my precious mom was diagnosed with ALS also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease. ALS is one horrible disease that wreaks havoc on your body and there is no cure. Mom was diagnosed in April and passed away June 28th. Her body went from being a very healthy 83 year old to a person that could not move her legs and arms in a matter of weeks. I will try to explain a little bit about what I know of ALS.

What is ALS?

Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS), also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease, is a progressive and devastating neurological disorder. It affects the nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord that control voluntary muscle movements.

Normally, these nerve cells, called motor neurons, transmit signals from the brain to the muscles, allowing us to move and perform everyday activities. In ALS, these motor neurons gradually degenerate and die, leading to a loss of communication between the brain and the muscles.

With mom as the disease progressed, we saw total muscle weakness, twitching, and eventually whole body paralysis. This affected her ability to walk, talk, eat, and eventually breathe.

Unfortunately, ALS currently has no cure, and its exact cause is not fully understood. Even the doctors were hesitant to actually confirm that is what she had. They would say things like “we are pretty sure this is what she has” or “all her symptoms appear to be ALS”. It was a little frustrating during the diagnoses period to say the least.

Who can get ALS?

ALS can strike anyone, regardless of age or gender, although it typically occurs in people between the ages of 40 and 70. Because of this we thought because she was older, that maybe she might have long COVID. The doctors also thought it might be Rheumatoid Arthritis or even cancer. Mom went through what seemed like a million tests to rule out any other diseases.

Despite its challenges, mom showed incredible resilience and courage in facing the difficulties caused by the disease. Up until the last two weeks she was smiling, able to communicate really well even though her voice was like a whisper at times. Mom always showed total gratitude for anything anyone did for her.

Moms symptoms with ALS

We really started noticing a change in moms posture in December. Mom had what is called a head drop. Her head dropped so far forward and she said she was having trouble standing up straight. Like her torso would not allow her to hold herself up. Another weird symptom was her voice. Her voice became scratchy and low. When we took her to meet the first doctor to see if she had Rheumatoid Arthritis she immediately said she does not have RA. The head drop and voice change is one of the tell tale signs of ALS. Luckily the Dr. said “my husband is a Neurologist and I am going to make sure he sees her immediately”.

After meeting with her husband and getting lots of blood work and some neurology tests done he was pretty sure she had ALS. We were devastated! Mom had such a good outlook on everything even from the beginning. Mom would say “I have lived a great life, I have loved gardening, cooking, decorating and traveling.” Mom started multiple businesses, enjoyed life with her hubby, children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. She said, “I am happy with how I lived my life but nervous about how this disease would eventually take my life”.

ALS Treatments

Treatments are available to manage some symptoms and improve the quality of life, but moms symptoms were moving so fast that we did not have time to take advantage of some of the drugs. Even after getting a second opinion in May and learning about the medications available, the doctors said it would only give her a few extra months. Mom decided not to take the the drugs.

Care of mom

Taking care of mom was one of the most physically, emotionally and mentally demanding things my sister and I have ever done as well as one of the most sacred experiences. Mom was a very private person and then to have us dress, bathe and potty her was so embarrassing for her. For us it was a privilege to be able to care for her like that. Almost every grandchild and my two son in laws had an opportunity to take part in helping mom as well.

I seriously don’t know what I would have done without my amazing husband who was literally her angel by carrying her everywhere, spending the night, going with us to take her to Dr. appts etc.. He was on call 24/7 and never ever complained once.

We just took it day by day and enjoyed as much time as we could spend with her. There were many funny, sad and happy moments spent by her side. We did our best to try and keep her as comfortable as possible. Her last few weeks were tough because she was pretty uncomfortable. Not in pain but just really uncomfortable. Throughout her entire sickness she was always saying “thank you, you are an angel, It will be ok.”

Moms faith in Jesus Christ

I admire my mom and her strong faith in Jesus Christ. Her example of love and faith in Jesus Christ brought us all peace. We strongly believe that we will all be together again in the hereafter. Jesus Christ loves us and will never leave us comfortless as it says in John 14:18. We felt the sustaining love, patience and comfort everyday. The love poured out from friends and family especially on the hardest days. I know Jesus Christ was aware of mom and all her needs as well as ours.

We are already miss her so much! Mom was full of life and love and there is a huge void now without her around. We know she is probably dancing in heaven with our brother Tim who passed away about 14 years ago from cancer.

Awareness of ALS

Support from healthcare professionals, caregivers, and organizations plays a crucial role in helping individuals with ALS live their lives to the fullest and raise awareness about this condition. Increased awareness and research efforts are essential in the quest to find a cure for ALS and improve the lives of those affected by this condition.

I would like to encourage you to help by getting involved to help fight ALS by clicking here.

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  1. Grace Nathan's says

    January 11, 2025 at 9:51 am

    I am a CALS. My husband is PALS. It was hard and I cry daily but not in front of him unless we cry together. He couldn’t find anything to give him happiness or hope. We have been focusing on our faith. He was only losing his voice before we made the decision to try different medications, which significantly enhanced his condition. He received treatment for ALS/MND at uinehealth centre . c om from Canada approximately four months ago; since then, he has stopped using a feeding tube, speech is getting better by the day, sleeps well, works out frequently, and has become very active.

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  2. Meyer Odette says

    September 5, 2024 at 10:01 pm

    My husband had ALS/MND programme about 4 months ago. he no longer requires a feeding tube, sleeps soundly, works out frequently, and is now very active. It doesn’t make the ALS go away but it did give him better quality of life. we got the treatment from vine health centre . co m

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  3. Meyer Odette says

    August 19, 2024 at 10:12 am

    My husband had ALS/MND programme about 4 months ago. he no longer requires a feeding tube, sleeps soundly, works out frequently, and is now very active. It doesn’t make the ALS go away but it did give him better quality of life. we got the treatment from vine healt hcentre. com

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  4. Katherine Bhana says

    March 12, 2024 at 1:43 am

    ALS is a cruel disease. My mother who had been diagnosed with Lou Gehrig’s disease for 3 years at the age of 82 had all her symptoms reversed with Ayurveda medicine from natural herbs centre after undergoing their ALS/MND Ayurvedic protocol, she’s now able to comprehend what is seen and she no longer needs the feeding tube to feed,. God Bless all ALS disease Caregivers. Stay Strong, take small moments throughout the day to thank yourself, to love your self, and pray to whatever faith, star, spiritual force you believe in and ask for strength, their website is natural herbs centre. com She’s getting active again since starting this treatment program…

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  5. Norma J. Eichmann says

    August 6, 2023 at 10:13 am

    I am so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Just remember that she is always around you and, in your heart, forever. You and your family are in my prayers.

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  6. Barbara at Mantel and Table says

    August 4, 2023 at 1:47 pm

    Oh Karin – your mother sounds like a lovely person, and I’m so glad you got to be with her during it all. What beautiful memories you’ll have. She obviously passed down her wonderful attitude and generosity to you. Thanks for sharing this with us, and I’m sending lots of love and good wishes your way.

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  7. Corrie says

    August 3, 2023 at 12:39 pm

    Giant hugs to you and everyone who is grieving and still processing her loss.

    My sister-in-law passed away from ALS a few years ago, when she was barely 50 years old. It was such a terrible time in our family’s life.

    But, as you noted from your own experience, there were also so many amazing moments of courage, bravery, generosity, and love.

    I’ll be thinking about you. I’m sending so much love to you now, and in the future.

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  8. Suzanne says

    August 3, 2023 at 7:32 am

    I am so sorry, Karin. What a wonderful tribute to your beloved mother! She was blessed to have you and your family as her caregivers. You and your family will be in my prayers during this time and going forward.
    Suzanne
    Psalm 46

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  9. Jenna says

    August 3, 2023 at 6:43 am

    Oh Karin, I have been so worried about you and I am so sorry for your loss. It is a true blessing that she passed away so soon after her diagnosis so that she didn’t have to suffer for long. She sounds like an incredible woman and living to 83 is quite amazing. Prayers for your family…

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  10. lee says

    August 3, 2023 at 5:53 am

    Oh Karin… I write with tears. I lost my beloved Mama and its over 10 years and it still stings! She was my mentor, my bestie and my biggest fan! I send you love and light. I often walk my gardens around my home and each Rose, My russian lilac’s, her white fig tree, my white lilac all bloom yearly. The memories flood back and I can feel her chubby cool, freckled arms hug me. Your Mom will remain forever embedded in your heart. Hugs & Condolences
    ~ leelee

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  11. Susan Crane says

    August 3, 2023 at 4:44 am

    I am so sorry for your loss, may you be blessed with wonderful memories

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  12. Debbie says

    August 2, 2023 at 8:08 pm

    I have been following you for a while. This is such a wonderful tribute to your Mother. Prayers to you and your family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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  13. Lea and Ray says

    August 2, 2023 at 7:43 pm

    We would like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family.
    We want to express our sympathy and let you know that our thoughts are with you. Take care ❤️🌺😘

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  14. Katherine says

    August 2, 2023 at 6:31 pm

    Thank you for sharing your story, a very sweet tribute.
    My husband has been battling lymphoma cancer the past five months,
    and the chemo has taken a toll on his body, he has been very sick, so I
    know a little about what you went through with caregiving with your
    lovely mother. I like your attitude about it all. We believe in Jesus and
    His Promises too!
    God Bless you all!

    I don’t blog anymore, but I’m on Facebook.

    Kathy D. Aurelia

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  15. debra@commonground says

    August 2, 2023 at 5:48 pm

    Such a precious and loving tribute to your beautiful mom. I’m so glad you had the opportunity to be with her during this time. There’s one photo where there is such a resemblance of you two. I believe as you, that you will see her again in heaven; what a comfort for all family and loved ones. We’ve missed you on the blog, but I had read your IG page. Take care of yourself. hugs and blessings to you and your family. Debra

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  16. Joanne says

    August 2, 2023 at 5:47 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss! Your mom sounds like she was such a wonderful lady and so very brave right up until the very end.

    Reply

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