While on our trip to St. Thomas I noticed many women dressed in their little sun dresses, bikini’s, short shorts, tank tops and other beach wear. Some of the women dressed this way were blessed to have rock hard bodies and looked very nice in their beach attire. Others were actually quite large and were wearing these form fitting skin showing outfits, some were very tall and thin and not a curve in sight. But the one commonality between all these women I noticed is…… that each of them were enjoying their vacation……no matter their size, height, amount of wrinkles or no wrinkles, bra size, curviness or lack their of….some were with very good-looking men and some were with the average looking Joe. Some of these women were single young women with their significant other, some were young mothers with their all little children around them, some were with their teenagers, some were probably even great grandmothers with all their wrinkles being shown off in pride. As I looked around I realized that you choose to make life what you want. …..Just because some women have been blessed with bodies that men adore are they happier than any of the rest of us? I say no!…it all depends on the person , their personality and their outlook in life. Not on how they look on the outside that determines how much joy they can have in life. So my advice to you gals, not that anyone asked……. but go out and enjoy life to the fullest no matter your shape or size, find that bright colored nylon/spandex piece of fabric that is shaped like a tube and plop yourself into it and hit the beach, pool or even your own backyard! Have fun, be a kid again …..don’t wait around for that perfect bathing suit body before you go out and experience the fun things in life. Just go out!!